Film for Life
Sharing a recipe for surviving everything, everywhere, all the time: watching movies!
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Monday, January 2, 2023
Our Increasingly Mad, Melding, and Chaotic World on Screen
Although film critics and academies put out lists of the best movies of the year, the movies we’ll end up loving or hating are as personal as everything. That’s not to say, “ditch the critics”. With the number of movies out there, it would be impossible without them. In December, my Tik Tok algorithm provided me with list upon list of the “10, 20, 50 best movies I saw this year”, some most definitely influenced by the lists famous critics provide, others by what was commercially successful, still more what was personal and touched them because of whatever circumstance or moment they were going through. That is the thing about art. The creator probably holds the “truth” about what a piece of art is all about, but once it’s out there, the spectator, audience, critic, will make it their own.
Still, I want to share my top ten movies with whomever may read
this blog because they may want to get this woman’s perspective, which is what
blogs are all about anyway. It is my regret that living in Kentucky, where the
last of the art house movie theaters closed this year, I have not been able to
see some of the movies recommended by my favorite critics, mainly because they are
foreign films, many of which aren’t even being streamed (unless you sign up to
all the new art house streaming platforms).
What’s made up for the angst I feel about not seeing the great foreign films is some of the wondrous things I’ve seen made for the small screen. Therefore, I want to do something different here, also share the top ten television series I loved this year. They have truly been a reflection of everything mad, melding, and chaotic in our world. We're seeing all this on the big and small screen now. This is my step into the now and forever of this symbiotic dyad of movies and television. With Netflix, Amazon, and other streaming platforms now having studios and not only streaming but making movies, and with some of the best actors, cinematographers, and directors making television series, like what was done in the days of my parents with “serial” movies, some of the best, most moving, evocative, and reflection-provoking film have been in the form of series for television. So, here are my lists. (I comment on my top five films).
My List of Ten Best Films of 2022
1. Everything everywhere all at once - Daniel Kwan and Daniel Schneider
Like I said, it’s all about what’s personal. I am a mother of two girls. The relationship with each one of my daughters is as complicated as a multiverse. I am an immigrant in the US, a woman immigrant of color, therefore I know the daily struggle and doubts about the decision made to come here, especially as I see my daughters and the new culture they inhabit. I am married (enough said). I am depressed when Tax Day comes around. This movie was everything, everywhere, all at once for me (it brought me back to my blog this year).
2. Decision to leave - Park Chan-Wook
I have admired Park Chan-Wook’s work, having seen Old Boy and The Handmaiden on streaming platforms. Decision took me from admiring his talent as a cinephile to being moved by it very deeply. This is, like his other films, a thriller but really the most amazing love story in disguise. I think his other films are like this too.
Cate Blanchet is probably one of the most versatile yet recognizable actors today. There’s always a piece of her in the characters she portrays. Never more than in Tar. I admired the talent in this movie more than loved it for its message or how it made me feel. The direction is impeccable, the cinematography exquisite, the music, well the centerpiece, the set and costume design precise, and Cate Blanchet’s acting superb. The discussion it undertakes never more relevant and one I have faced along with any other person who has, for example, admired a film like Chinatown but now can’t bring herself to watch it without thinking about how terrible Roman Polanski is as a person. There are too many examples today to go over them. Todd presents the dilemma well and very subtly takes sides, which is what makes this movie great. As the pendulum swings back and movements like the #Me Too or even Black Lives Matter diffuse, Tar makes the conversation even more important.
4. The Wonder -Sebastián Lelio
With the force that some “religious” fanatic groups seem to
be gaining ground and causing so much damage when they weave their way into
politics and policies, movies which question them and the damage done without
destroying the essence of what it really means to hold Christian values are
good to watch, such is the case with The Wonder. As a Latina, I am proud that
this movie was made by Chilean director Sebastián Lelio. Lelio has been a
trailblazer in South America for his film a Fantastic Woman ( Una Mujer Fantástica)
featuring and about a transgender woman, which won the Academy Award for Best Foreign
Film. His other films, Gloria, and Disobedience, the latter about a lesbian relationship
within an Orthodox Jewish community, also address the issue of women and religion.
In The Wonder, Florence Pugh’s performance is subtle and beautiful, as is the
camera work, and the story itself.
5. Emily the Criminal – John Patton Ford
Aubrey Plaza is slowly but surely demonstrating her tremendous talent. What a great talent it is! People may have been more impressed this year by Plaza in The White Lotus, but it is in Emily the Criminal where she really shines. The movie, John Patton Ford’s first feature film, is about a young woman saddled with student debt and finding it hard to keep a job, so she becomes involved in a credit card scam. The script takes off from there and never stops being real and down to earth, even as it moves into a more fantastical finale.
6. Black Panther: Wakanda Forever - Ryan Coogler
One word: Namor.
7. Bodies, Bodies, Bodies - Halina Reijn
A Gen Z thriller. So, deep, funny, revealing.
8. Turning red -Domee Shi
Disney finally getting inter and intra cultural right... and funny!
9. Thirteen Lives - Ron Howard
The best non-documentary documentary. Edge of the seat till the end!
10. Argentina 1985 - Santiago Mitre
A truth that needs to be told over and over again.
My List of Ten Best TV Series of 2022
Youth and young adults showing us their lives on a reservation in Oklahoma, in Atlanta, as children of Egyptian immigrants in Seattle, or in Mexico, these amazing series (Reservation Dogs, Atlanta, Ramy, Los Espookys) were some of the most emotionally moving and even heartbreaking series I've seen this year, tremendously creative in their narrative, with acting so natural and wondrous that it screams of hope for future great series and films. Really nothing to envy film.
Other series that appealed to me this year because of how they also told the truth of life in the United States through its real history, like The English and what the real "move to the West" meant, through allegory, like Severance, smashing the American workplace, its alienation and class warfare like no other show, or through a series that made me laugh and cry at the state of public schools in minority neighborhoods through the brilliant writing of Quinta Brunson, which was Abbot Elementary.
I loved Tony Gilroy's Andor for Diego Luna and Stellan Skarsgard, who like Pedro Pascal and Oscar Isaacs, have made Star Wars serious and relevant. And as a woman, Bad Sisters spoke to me like nothing I've seen made around just how #MeToo this world really is, and through comedy at that (albeit dark comedy). A masterpiece in comedy and so much more was Our Flag Means Death. Taika Waititi can't be over praised (he's behind Reservation Dogs as well), and he really put his heart into this one!
1. Reservation Dogs
3. Abbot Elementary
6. Los Espookys
8. Andor
9. Severance
10. Our Flag Means Death
Tuesday, November 8, 2022
Our Longing for Everything, Everywhere, All at Once
I am always
impressed by artists who have the wisdom and feelings of experience when they’re
still too young to have accumulated it through living. It’s like that amazing Pink Floyd song, Time,
in which then 27 year old David Gilmore wrote “And then one day you find ten
years have got behind you. No one told you when to run, you missed the starting
gun.” The “Daniels" are like this. Daniel Kwan and Daniel Scheinert, the 34-
and 35-year-old directors of Everything, Everywhere, All at Once,
seem to know what it’s like to be 60 year old Evelyn Wang (played majestically by
the wonderful Michelle Yeoh) an overwhelmed immigrant woman struggling to keep her
house and laundry in order, the taxes paid, and her relationships with her elderly
Chinese father, aching husband, and young gay daughter. She is coasting along in a culture that is still
foreign to her, feeling she’s drowning in a world that seems to be moving at an
impossible pace to keep up with.
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Stephanie Hsu as Jobu Tupaki |
The cast the
Daniels direct to tell this multi-layered, multiverse story couldn’t be stronger or better. All Academy Award worthy!
Along side Michelle Yeoh is Stephanie Hsu who plays Joy Wang, Evelyn’s daughter.
She is the also much feared Jobu Tupaki in the other universes, threatening to
destroy everything through her pain. Ke Huy Quan is Waymond Wang, Evelyn’s sweet,
lovely, lonely and confused husband. Then there is the quite legendary actor James
Hong as Gong Gong, Evelyn’s father. Jamie Lee Curtis is unrecognizable as Deirdre
Beaubeirdre, transformed into the monstrous tax agent and most certainly a
woman we’ve met before in one immigration or tax office or another.
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Ke Huy Quan, Michelle Yeoh, and James Hong |
The Daniel’s script is worthy of many awards for its creativity, its reach, but especially for the depth of feelings it captures. Jobu Tupaki, who carries the wrath of misunderstanding, of living in a world of parental expectations and disappointments, of hurt, says in her destruction of the universe, “If nothing matters, then all the pain and guilt you feel for making nothing of your life goes away.” Such depths of despair! Then along comes Waymond Wang, who wins the battle for us all with his formula for life, “The only thing I do know is that we have to be kind. Please, be kind. Especially when we don't know what's going on (…) You think because I’m kind that it means I'm naive, and maybe I am. It's strategic and necessary. This is how I fight.”
Indeed!This is how we
should all fight.
Thursday, February 11, 2021
The Magic Lantern Shines Brighter Still
With trembling hand this optimistic blogger returns after over a year of silence with the hope that there’s still a reader out there willing to take a chance on me again.
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Anya Taylor-Joy in Emma |
I
saw great movies during my intermission! More than ever I am cemented in my conviction
that I survive whatever troubled times I face through this beautiful art that
is film. The last time I went to a movie theater was March 6, 2020. It was to
see Autum de Wilde’s Emma which, as the fan I am of movies
based on Jane Austen novels, I enjoyed and recommend above all for its gorgeous
photography, set and costume design. I miss the theater experience more than I
can convey, and lament the toll the pandemic has taken on theaters, which even
makes their sustainability uncertain. However, I subscribed to the many at-home
movie viewing options and it was more soothing than ever to watch good and even
great films. There were even movie history-in-the-making moments where I out right
jumped for joy in celebration, such as when Bong Joon-ho’s masterpiece Parasite
won multiple Academy Awards, including Best Picture.
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Jimmie Fails, Johnathan Major and Danny Glover in The Last Black Man in San Francisco |
The
movies seemed to absorb the complexity of the times and incrementally got
better as 2019 ticked into the bizarre year that was 2020. Joe Talbot’s
refreshingly creative direction in The Last Black Man in San Francisco was the treasure to see in 2019; a movie that says so much about race
relations in America in such a profound and rather poetic fashion (it even has a
Greek chorus-like group of young black men!). Jordan Peele’s US
gave us the horror genre approach on race; good but I still much prefer his
so-far grand opus Get Out. Some movies
were gems for their acting. The unembellished alienation so majestically
brought to screen by Joaquin Phoenix stood out in Joker, Todd Phillip’s
psychological thriller which was part comic book backstory and part social
inequality protest film. And there were other, less art house films, but still
quite enjoyable ones such as the whodunit Knives Out in the mystery comedy
genre, directed by Rian Johnson. And, of course, for the Marvel fan that I am, Spiderman:
Far From Home more than satisfied.
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Dennis Bovell and Saffron Coomber in Lovers Rock |
Among
the wonderful movies I have seen, Steve McQueen’s anthology, made up of five
movies released on Prime under the series name Small Axe, include my
favorites: Lovers Rock and Mangrove. Even though Mangrove,
along with Red White and Blue, Alex Wheatle and Education, are London based and present the real-life experiences
of black immigrants terrorized by racism in London’s West Indian community, in
the year of the murders of George Floyd and Breonna Taylor in America, these
films are most certainly part of the global call for change and the movement
that is Black Lives Matter! McQueen, who directed the Academy Award Best
Picture 12 Years a Slave (2013), is a
master at presenting the infamy of racism and the urgent need to end this
scourge.
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Daniel García in Ya No Estoy Aquí |
Two
movies from Latin America touch on the force of community in confronting strong
issues of poverty and inequality, Fernando Fria’s Ya No Estoy Aqui (I Am No Longer Here), from Mexico, and Kleber
Mendonça Filho’s Bacurau, from
Brazil. Latin American is not only growing its film industry substantially but
presenting the world with fresh styles that reflect the very broad cultural
spectrum that exists in our countries, which defy how we’re many times treated as
if we had a single, monolithically homogeneous culture. Another foreign language film which, while less dramatic than the two mentioned, also looks
into a most curious aspect of a culture, this time in Denmark, is Thomas
Vinterberg’s Another Round, with the always fabulous (I’m a fan) Mads
Mikkelsen.
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Dick Johnson in Dick Johnson is Dead |
I’m
realizing I’ll lose the reader if I make this post too much longer, but I can’t
leave it without mentioning the documentaries in 2020. I confess that I’ve not
been as into documentaries as I should have been (in books I also prefer
fiction) but this may change after this year in which some of the best movies I’ve
seen have been documentaries. Dick Johnson is Dead by Dick Johnson’s
daughter Kirsten Johnson, is probably one of the best movies about the love
between a parent and a child that I’ve seen, the making of the movie itself is
a testament to this. David Byrne’s American Utopia by
Spike Lee is an energizing, hopeful, fun and great movie for progressive music
loving fans, whether you are a Talking Heads fan or not. There are others, including some I’ve yet to
see, which are the social commentary documentaries, some hard to watch but
amazing as films and testaments to the craziness of our lives and world: Crip
Camp: A Disability Revolution by Nicole Newham and Jim LeBrecth, All
In: The Fight for Democracy by Lisa Cortés and Liz Garbus, City
Hall by Frederick Wiseman, Mayor by David Osit, The
Social Dilemma by Jeff Orloski.
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Spike Lee's American Utopia |
Something
big happened starting the elections of November 2020, cemented by Georgia’s
Senate runoff election in January this year: millions of people in the United
States said ENOUGH! We voted to get off the dark road on which the country was
travelling, which affected the whole world. Many millions of Americans said that
we want to live in the 21st Century and we want it to be a century
of inclusion, of diversity, of science, respect, human dignity, and kindness.
We want to live in a world that needs to come together to face this and any
other pandemic that arises, to face the existential threat that is inequality,
climate change, or any other menace that impacts human beings negatively. This
big change in the direction of the country has helped me take up the pen again
and share with the reader my love of film. I thank the artists that make movies
for keeping the magic lantern shining, for keeping me going during those
darkest of times, which I am hopeful we will all be determined to leave behind
for good. Lessons learned.
Saturday, May 4, 2019
Eros! (Not Thanos)
Some of the strongest characters of the previous 21 movies in the Marvel Cinematic Universe (MCU) carry the movie well, so it’s fine that many others have small parts. The Russo brothers, who directed some of the best films in the MCU -Captain America: The Winter Soldier (2014), Captain America: Civil War (2016) and Avengers: Infinity War (2018)- chose their leading Avengers well. (Maybe I would have had Groot in a few more scenes just ‘cause he’s hella cute; and… certainly not Natasha?!). These were the right directors for the film.
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Captain America (Chris Evans) and Falcon ( Anthony Mackie) |
Saturday, January 27, 2018
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
That piece of dialogue isn’t even the worst in the film, as bad as it is. I need to transcribe part of the one that is, and I note that I am not, of course, transcribing the N word, but these white characters certainly did use it in the movie:
Friday, January 19, 2018
When Times Get Rough
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Gary Oldman as Winston Churchill in Darkest Hour |
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Christopher Plummer as John Paul Getty in All the Money in the World |
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Michelle Williams and Mark Wahlberg in All the Money in the World |
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Bria Vinaite as Halley and Brooklyn Prince as Moonee in The Florida Project |
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Willem Dafoe and Brooklyn Prince in The Florida Project |
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Anthony Gonzales as the voice of Miguel and Ana Ofelia Murguía as the voice of Mamá Coco in Coco |
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Sally Hawkins and Octavia Spencer in The Shape of Water |
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Richard Jenkins and Sally Hawkins in The Shape of Water |